Should i message her?

Ok this is a bit complicated. I hope this will make sense.

There is this girl i met through a mutual friend who is from Germany. My friend introduced us because i speak German as well and thought we'd hit it off. I thought she was cute and so i kind of tried to get to know her better. At first she showed a lot of signs about wanting to hang out. Things seemed to be going ok and then she would invite me to do stuff and then cancel. I went back to school and kind of got tired after she invited me to hang out twice in a row and then flaked. She found me on myspace and sent me a friend request.

I ran into her when i was out with my friend and we talked for about 5 minutes but that was it. i dont really care if i end up dating her but was kind of interested in being friends.

its been about 4-5 months since we last talked. i was thinking since she sent me that myspace friend request maybe i should sent her a message like "how have you been?" is it worth it or not?

Should i message her?

If you're interested in been friends then message her, the worst that can happen is she flakes again. If you wanted more though, I'd be wary cuz you dont wanna get hurt if she's unreliable.

Should i message her?

Go for it!

Should i message her?

Go for it. Someone has to make the first move or attempt to get back to talking, it might as well be you.

Should i message her?

of course its worth it if you like her!!! BE BRAVE but maybe just once you should do the same back to her

Should i message her?

Send her a message ask her for an explanation, if she is honest with you it shows she respects you. A question for you here ... Do you live in Germany? What is your original nationality?

How often do you travel to Germany if you don't live there? If you two really want to get somewhere together you need to keep in contact, especially with all that distance (assuming you don't live in Deutschland)

Good luck with whatever comes of it, i wish you all the best...

Should i message her?

The question is not "is it worth it"? The question is "WHY NOT"?

or...what have you got to lose??