I have a question...OK, so you all know what Myspace is right? So here it is...my fiance has just started a Myspace account. I didn't mind. I have one too; I use it to talk to old and new friends. I have never ever said the things he has said on there. So this is where the question comes in. Is this crossing the lline? I have some bits and pieces of messages he has sent to ex-girlfriends and here they are...You and I really hit it off in Mexico. It's too bad we didn't get to hang around much after that. You were cool.You pretty much look the same. Good job. I'd imagine ballet doesn't really allow you to each ribs and pizza too often. Yeah. I feel guilty for teasing you in eight grade, but know that some of it was flirting. You were cute and smart and moody.So, either way, we need to have lunch in your city or my city in the near term. I was talking to ** and he said you're hotter now than before. I'm dying to see current pictures of you. (messages to 3 diff. girls)
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Well, he's definately flirting. It could be that he doesn't know any other way to talk to women. But, if it bothers you, then tell him to cut it out. The date plan, is a bit worrisome though. I'd definately say something now.
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Perfect example of online cheating - move on.
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Woah, I would be pi ssed!! Your fiance shouldn't care what these girls look like now!! I would confront him about this and tell him you can't marry a guy that exhibits so many signs of a present/future cheater!!
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Dump his #@%26amp;. You deserve better than that.
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Yes, he is crossing the line.
Are you sure you want to marry someone who is so willing to risk a relationship with you for stupid e-chats with old ex's?
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the first thing i would do is talk to him about it, if you haven't already. if he's doin somethin he shouldn't, you'll be able to tell when he responds
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Sounds like he just a bit to interested in other girls lives. Sorry but sounds like if he could have a chance to date or cheat he would...
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Yeah, that's crossing the line. He should not be dying to see anyone's pictures.. To me, that is a form of cheating..
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Men are pig's. I am a man. We PLAY. But we wake up to you and Our life. You don't dream?
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You need to tell him to stop it or you will end the relationship.
If he doesn't dump his ***.
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some of it sounds petty.. but sending messages about hooking up with ex-girlfriends may be somewhat crossing the line. You don't have a relationship without trust, and if you worry about him cheating all the time. The two of you will be miserable.
Good luck
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Time to wave bye-bye!!!
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you said you talked to old and new friends and he's talking to old and new friends. This isn't about crossing the line, because any conversation you have with an ol' crush is going to lead to this.
You see .......... don't be a hater, since you violated the trust by dippin' in his IM in the first place, you may as well go ahead and send ex-girlfriend a friendly IM letting her know that your husband has told you all about her and the two of you look forward to having pizza with her some day soon. This way, it will be another ten years before you have to worry about her again and you can still monitor hubby's behavior.
(pat on the back) Now that's how you handle that without getting all worked up over "Crossing the Line!"
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