I want to get to know a guy, without seeming creepy?

i was looking at a girls myspace that i know, she goes to a different school. so i saw this guy on her friends list and i was looking at his page and hes really cute, we have the same interests and like the same music. so i requested him and he accepted it. i wanna actually get to know him but wouldnt messaging him seem a little creepy and i dont know what i would write. i wouldnt want him to like tell his friends about the creepy girl who messaged him or something. haha i dont know what to do, help! also i dont know the girl well enough to ask her about him, i only play against her in sports so we dont really know eachother.

or if i were to send a message would something like this be good to send? "hey i happened to see your myspace and saw that you play a lot of sports and like country music,which is really cool, so i figured id request you. how are you?"

I want to get to know a guy, without seeming creepy?

Cool be yourself when getting to know the fellow, trust everyone the dude is probably not going to find you creepy because you are a girl on the other hand if you were a guy yes it would be very creepy. What you said you are going to send is fine, might want to spice it up a little bit by saying all that and something a long the lines of wow and you're so cute!

I want to get to know a guy, without seeming creepy?

i think you should message him. and that message you wrote would be ok. it isn't exactly creepy, it just depends on the guy. some think it is and uthers don't. do it and try, if he thinks it's creepy, that's his problem.

I want to get to know a guy, without seeming creepy?

Just send him a message telling him that the two of you seem to have a lot in common, and ask him if you can get his phone # so you can get to know him better.

I want to get to know a guy, without seeming creepy?

im a guy thats not creppy im cute

I want to get to know a guy, without seeming creepy?

Truthfully if he accepted you he si probably interested in you to. The first thing a man looks at when he sees a girl/woman is her sex appeal to him. So of he accepted he is most likely already is attracted to you..

So just be open and honest with him. But I really think getting to know him better would eb done better in person rather then the computer. On the computer he can make you think he is any one that he wants to be.

So just be honest and straight forward, I mena you already requested his friendship on myspace so obviously he knows you must have been interested.