Help with this girl please?

ive been sending now five emails with this girl off a known dating site for the last week or so, a little less. I gave her my myspace link but she never added me. And she said she had AIM...she just said "I try to keep in touch with my sis through aim" but i dont wanna ask for her sn bc i already tried with myspace and she didnt bite. now i gotta wait for her right? otherwise it makes me come off creepy. maybe she wants to get to know me more before we talk outside of this dating site?

i've said stuff like "you have a cute smile" etc but she doesn't acknowledge that stuff. she did say she was shy at first. maybe shes one of those who cant take a compliment?

i like this girl, as much as i can for only talking in email and reading her profile, but i have a hard time reading how she feels.

i dont think a girl would keep emailing me if she wasnt at least interested. right? she did say in the beginning that she liked that i seem like a family guy and down to earth.good sign i suppose?

Help with this girl please?

Unfortunately it doesnt sound like she is interested in pursuing anything with you. You really need to lay off and stop "hounding" her b/c you ARE going to come across not only as creepy but also desperate and there is NOTHING that is more of a TURN OFF then a desperate man!!

So.. I would just leave it be... there are PLENTY more fish in the sea. After all, you had barely known this girl anyway, so its not like its a HUGE loss or breaking your heart yet!

And if she IS interested in you... then she WILL contact you. She has all your emails, myspace, etc. So just wait for her to come to you (after all she might just be out of town or busy the last few days... who knows!) And in the meantime... find someone ELSE to talk to online... someone who DOES seem to have some interest in you (and even then DONT overdo it cuz like I said, theres nothing worse then a DESPERATE man!!)

Good luck in love!

Help with this girl please?

Maybe she hasn't gotten on myspace recently.

Help with this girl please?

Well, it sounds like she is not romantically interested in you. Maybe she likes you more as a friend. I would send her one last email and ask her how she feels. If she doesn't respond and ignores you, then you know what the deal is. Good luck.

Help with this girl please?

You've only got 5 emails from her so far, right? That's not enough to ask for a relationship to start, by any means. I would continue doing what you're doing now: showing interest, being attentive, see what you all have in common.

If you sent her the last email, yes, the ball is in her court.

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Help with this girl please?

She is interested, and yea her saying ur a family guy and down to earth is a good sign if shes that way but her being shy says she is down to earth. You like her and she probebly (sorry i cant spell :] ) likes you to, anyway just keep talking to her on the dating site soon you 2 may be chating on MySpace .good luck!!!

Help with this girl please?

YOU SOUND A LITTLE TO WRAPED UP IN THIS GIRL THAT YOU DON'T KNOW!!! THIS IS THE INTERNET YOU NEVER KNOW WHO IT IS YOUR TALKING TOO....SHE MIGHT NOT BE INTO THE INTERNET LOVE THING AND JUST WAS TRYING IT OUT...CHILL OUT IF SHE IS DIGGIN YOU SHE WILL LET YOU KNOW IF NOT OH WELL NEXT PLEASE

Help with this girl please?

This is a multi faceted dilemma. The reasons for her actions or lack there of is anyone's guess. She may be "into" you but afraid. The internet is a scarey place. You never know who someone "really" is. She may not even be who she says she is. She may just be looking for attention with no real desire to take it any further...an ego stroke. She may just not be that into you and isn't telling you. She may just want to take it slow and feels safe where things are right now. Yes, pushing it does make you look like a predator or clingy person...so step back. You may really like what you know about her but she is giving you the slow down or red light for now. She is not the only female out there...do not fixate on her! Let things just happen or not happen. In the meantime you have a friendship with her. Just enjoy that. Do not push!