Is it possible?

I've been dating my bf for about a yr and we know each other inside and out. Only thing is we haven't ever been physical w/ each other. We hug and occassionaly hold hands. he's definitely not a virgin but he's also very religious. but then again he still ur average 18 yr old guy. I'm a virgin a very pure virgin. Do you think he's really staying committed to me or no? I've seen his myspace and there are 3 main girls that constantly post comments talking about how cute he is and they speak in 'codes' when they post comments such as "i was thinking about you today.... and ur yam juice?" what is that supposed to mean. he tells me that what we have is real bcuz he likes me and he knows it has nothing to do w/ a physical touching perspective. Is this game or truth?

Is it possible?

It sounds like the truth...suprisingly. If you and him were having sex, I would say it was game. But he actually seems like a young man who wants to do right by a wholesome girl who is having issues with not-so-wholesome girls tempting him. Sounds like a keeper =)

Is it possible?

well if you have any doubts about his faithfulness keep the legs shut, thats all I can say...

Is it possible?

He's a playa. Dump him.

Is it possible?

okay.. well i sorta hav the same situation. my bf and me hav been going out for 9 months.... there's the occasional hug but we havn't kissed yet and i heard that he told a table of his friends to raise their hand if they think he should break upi with me.. well anyhow back to your question... you should talk to him and say wuts up with these girls?? they're constantly hitting on you!! and maybe you should try to find out if its real.... be a little forward... hug him just b/c run up to him in the hallway and kiss him on the cheek... just be a little... different and see his reaction! if he backs off then maybe it is a game.... but if he doesn't then that means he likes it so its truth.... but still stay true to your virginity. dont take it that far!! he may not be pure but you are and if he pushes you beyond that then hes not for you.

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It could be that he's worried about messing his emotional relationship up with you. If he just wanted to be friends with you, I feel like that would be easy enough for him to do. At the same time, it is kind of weird that there's no physical side to things. Do you ever kiss him? You definitely don't have to have sex to have an amazing physical relationship. I'd just talk to him. Good luck!

Is it possible?

In life we must always have boundaries. You know what you want and he needs to respect that, and it appears that he has. 18 years old or not, we have been given self discipline. I knew a lot of Christian guys that waited until they were married to have sex. Tell him how you feel about the "girls". If it bothers you, you might have to let him go. That may hurt, but you have to decide for yourself what you want from someone and most importantly you need to decide what you want for yourself.