I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

okay, so theres this boy, john, and we just became friends about a month ago. he's a senior, and i'm a freshman. right when we became friends, he was asking my other friend(she was really good friends with him first) if i liked him, and i really didn't. he's not cute or anything, and i didn't even know him. he'd comment me on myspace and ask me to hang out with him, and i'd say no. because i had no feelings for him whatsoever, and didn't want to lead him on.

now, after a month, i have a mad crush on him. he is the sweetest boy i've ever met. and he's met a sophomore girl.

anyways. we talk on the phone about every night, like right before we go to bed. he acts like he likes me back (flirts, gets close, calls me all the time) and today, my friend said he was planning on asking the other girl out. like, whenever i ask him about her, he avoids the question.

i just called him around 6, and he said he was at his uncles and was leaving in about 15 minutes, and would call me later....

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

Good u did good

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

um helloooo! you turned him down . give him more of a hint that you like him. if he asks you to hang out and u say no.. he'll move on. so now that you messed up that chance... drop him a more obvious hint or ask him to hang out .

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

your a naive freshman. seniors mac on freshman and sophmores because its easier to sleep with them

he may be a nice guy, but hes still a guy. do yourself a favor and quit obsessing

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

Don't get all jealous, after all, he's not yours yet. Just keep cool. Maybe he's asking her out because he thinks you don't like him. You have to let him know. He must still like you if you two are talking on the phone every night. Just have a heart to heart with him. He's your friend. :)

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

wait for him to call if you smother him you will just push him further away

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

don't call him. He's not worth it. why woudl he ask her out if he talks to you each night.?? weird.

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

give hints that you like him alot like saying you dont really like that other girl or you wish you had a nice boyfriend

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

Tell him but not now. Let it wait a little just in case.

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

He doesn't talk about her to you most likely because he still has feelings for you but is trying to move on.

Show him that you're better than her.

Make plans to hangout and show him that you're a fun girl.

make him go crazy for you all over again.

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

dont call him too much let him call you i made that mistake and it caused my bf to eventually break up with me. maybe tell him how you feel or tell your friend to tell him

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well after reading your story, im like "wow!" because ive been thru the same thing.. i fell in love with a boy that wasnt even attractive or anything. to tell you the truth you cant help this because he either likes u or he doesnt. DO NOT call him again. thats the biggest mistake you can make. go with the flow, and im truly sorry if it doesnt work out because i know how it feels :]

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

you had your chance, you ruined it. my advice for u is to fish for other fishes in the sea and live the love birds to flock together

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

Honestly, I can speak from experience. The guy likes you, Its obvious but hes trying to play the game. Unless he expresses even more interest in you than he does this other girl, my advice to you is to not waste your time. It'll hurt a lot less than pursuing the matter.

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Weather you like someone or not in a relationship kind of way you should always try to be there friend. I know you said your friends now but now you might lose your chance at having a relationship with him. Tell him how you feel and if he wants a relationship with you then he will call you and tell you how he feels. Call him and tell him or leave a message but dont keep calling cause that just pushes them away. Good Luck, God Bless and Happy Holidays!

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

It sounds to me like he's avioding you. But, you can counteract that by being patient. He may be busy, and even if he is with the other girl, it's not something to lose hope over. Things happen, and maybe he will want to see you again.

This is just my opinion, though.

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

leave him alone, and whatever you do DONT call him. whats done is done if he wants you, he'll try you trust me...act like you're not interested.

he wants someone else, let him have her. you will find yourself a better and cutter guy.

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

No no, dont call him. If he wants to talk to you, he'll call. Plus, you'll seem needy...I would ask him what his intentions were with you, whether he just wanted to be freinds, or something more. Be honest with him, dont just let him keep playing with you like that...Good luck though.

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Never seem so despespeate waiting by a phone. Take charge of your own life. You're giving him the decisions. Be straight forward with this guy. Ask him of his intentions, then move on if you have too!!!

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Well sounds like you snooze you loose........You had your chance. And now that someone else likes him. you want him.

So you blew it....Ok get all mad at yourself. Hey at least he still calls ya. And if he's with the other girl right now, leave them alone. Would you want some girl to be calling your date, when you're on your date????????????????

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Wow, What a pickle you are in. Most things happen like that for a reason and that was to teach you a lesson that it doesn't matter what is on the outside but what is on the inside that matters. Sorry you found that out a little late. But if he flirts with you all of the time then yea call him but call him tomorrow. But more importantly the both of you really need to talk about you guys feel about each other. Do go around guessing, make sure you guys feel the same. That is what he was doing when he was talking to your friend and asking her if you liked him or not. Depending on what she said he might have already moved on. But you really need to talk to him as friends the both of you should be able to talk about most anything. See how he feels about you, don't worry about that other girl. forget her, it is all about you and him not her.

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

y don't you tell him that u like him? because he may just like the other girl as a good friend, but i don't know...

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

yo you screwed up big time. u should tell him how u feel about him before he gets with this other girl for good. dont lose thise guy. go for him girl.

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I would just come right out and ask him one of these times when your talking to him on the phone, if he's interested in you because your feelings for him have changed. Or even one of these times when he's flirting with you just casually jokingly say something about him possibly liking you...and see what he says. I wouldn't call him, wait for him to call. If you call him tooo much, he might get annoyed.

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Well i mean you turned him down...

maybe you can try talking to him.

Like about the girl.

If he aviods just ask him again.

Make it more serious.

I mean if you bring up the question he will tell you.

so...

I guess he still likes you and also the other girl.

It happened alot to my guy friends.

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"he was a boy

she was a girl

...can i make it anymore obvious"

i think you lost your shot : (

but just be normal around him, nice, but not too clingy. and see what happens.

and about the uncle thing... it may have been a lie, but what would i know. i'm a naive freshman too haha

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

Sorry but its your fault and you should have taken that boy when he wanted you

I Think I Really Screwed Up Bad. =\?

luk...wen he gave u a chance u said no... maybe .. and mind it maybe he may be just flirting now anbd genuinely interested in the other gal as earlier u must have made it clear just to be frnds and he is folloowing tht .. and now either u can say i like u directly or ask him just like tht are u going arnd with sum1 .... and just see the response .. if the response not gud and threatenin to yr frndship just say it was a joke and laugh and if the responses gud wat else do u want ...