Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

I have been married less than a year and recently I discoved hubby's desire to dress in my clothes. He doesn't know I know. I found his secret myspace account with photos. Everything from make-up to heels. he does look cute. should I stop him or help him?

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

If you are up for it then help him out and go with the flow. At the very least he will be relieved that he no longer has to hide things and you can enhance the honesty level between you. It will also allow you to be aware of what he is doing and participate in an area that you have thus far been separated from.

At the worst, you find out more things that may be uncomfortable for you and may lead to you re-evaluating your relationship. That would be better then living a lie for years with a secret or secrets that you never knew.

Live life, have fun , be safe, and enjoy!

Life is too short!

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

no leave him alone

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

yes very

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

I would be concerned that he would damage my clothes because he wears a size bigger. If you can live with this, please tell him you know about it so he can relax.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

No...why don't you play dress up together?

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

Talk to him %26amp; Help him !!! Good Luck !!!

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

What a man you have, i would divorce him and have him checked in to the hospital physc ward..

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

you don't think that strange?

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

yes, you should be running and screaming into the night...not normal...

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

YES! Be VERY concerned! Many people have fetishes, but posting online can be somewhat risky. In answer to your question, I'm not certain that you can stop him, or even help him. You may want to try posting this question under "psychology" where you may get more qualified answers. Good luck to you.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

It sounds like he has deeper issues. Talk to him. He may have been abused or traumatized as a kid.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

Maybe thats the only way he can get into your pants

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

If it turns you on...well gosh...I'd drop hints or suggest that he dress up so as to try and get him to open up to you...he needs his own things though, unless part of the appeal is that they belong to YOU. If he's a good guy otherwise, it's not a big deal. Help him hide his myspace better though, you wouldn't want his boss to find it.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

Nah...

Most of the time transvites have a se*ual fetish. They are gratifide by wearing womens clothes. Talk to him about it and engage him in how it makes him feel to wear womens' clothing.

I mean you should definatly set limits but as far as weird stuff goes it's not that bad...

Now if you find literature on brest augmentation for men or tickets to Tijuana then it might be time to break it off.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

Your husband is a little weird, but its not anything you can't handle. He is a straight, heterosexual, compulsive crossdresser.

Some men's brains are hard wired such that when they wear women's clothes their brains release these neurotransmitters which give them a sensation of well-being, sexual gratification, and self-identity. The sensation is very powerful, and very addictive. You will not be able to stop him. He has probably tried to stop, but finds he cannot. He is probably afraid to mention it to you and is trying to keep you from finding out because he assumes you will think he's a gay, or psycho, or something even more horrible.

He can go either of two ways, (1) he will give in to his crossdressing desires and let it control him. He will develop a female alter-ego, give "her" a name and fall in love with "her". Or, (2) he will crossdress only ocassionally, and he will place limits on his crossdressing, to the best of his ability.

As his wife you will have to the person who helps keep him facing reality. You have a right to the masculine man you married. Therefore, you need to openly discuss your feelings with him and help him follow certain rules you both agree with.

For Christmas buy him his own set of women's clothes, something very feminine, like a party dress, and wig. Help him dress modestly - not like a sexy whore. Then go about setting the rules:

1. You cannot wear my clothes without permission. Doing so makes me feel violated... I want my clothes to stay in good shape, not stretched out.

2. You cannot expect me to be turned on by your crossdressing. It doesn't mix with love making. Its a turn off.

3. When you crossdress do not use it as an aid in masterbation. Instead do something positive, like domestic work around the house: cleaning, ironing, washing clothes, etc..

4. Limit the times and extent of the crossdressing. To certain hours or days.. Practice some self-discipline.

5. Join a crossdressing club, you need to meet people like yourself and draw support from them.

That said, have fun too. Do some shopping together. Laugh, and enjoy each other.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

You're the same size?

So either your "husband" is 5 feet, 100 pounds, or you are 6 feet, 200?

RiiiiiiiiIIIgght.

Dude - you ask this "question" every freakin' day. Just because you're using a new name, we have to assume the last few got banned - again.

Just come roaring out of the closet, little fella - no one you know will be surprised you are a cross-dresing gay guy.

But please, drop the tee-hee I am a girl routine.

And stop standing in front of the mirror in your basement tucking your junk like Jamie Gumb in 'Silence of the Lambs.' It's creepy.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

What a freak. You better get out now. What else is he hiding from you? You should send him a fake pic/contact. Maybe of a guy in drag, just to see his response, to know if he is gay or just likes women's clothes. His response should help with your decision. I was wondering, did you wear the outfit? How did he react to it?

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

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Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

Only if he looks better than you.

Kidding, maybe you should, I mean, maybe just invite him to dinner and ask him. If he is only into cross dressing, then cool, he can be a great doll and you two can have so much fun. But if he is into cross dressers as well, then you may have a problem.

Should I be concerned about hubby wearing my clothes?

I say help him. You need to find out what his needs are. If he is simply cross dressing cause it turns him on. You can help him out and be the beneficiary of his being turned on. But you need to find out if this is all, or is he doing this to attract other men, you may not want to know but you need to know this.