Guys opinion?

I sort of know this guy-Joel. He's in a local band-so i've seen him play a few times-He's a freind on MYSPACE and always adds his next show as a comment on my page (not sure if you can mass comment on myspace) well he came into the bar i work at and we made eyes at each other a few times thru out the night and he definitly made sure to stay in my eye sight and at the end of the night he was talking to the sound guy which is right next to my bar (two bars in the place). he didnt say anything directly to me but would i be going out of my way to send him a comment on myspace and say "hey it was great to see you tues night, next time you;ll have to buy your beer from my bar. see you soon" and expect him to understand that if he does think im cute to ASK ME OUT! or if he was interested, would he have made an attempt?

Guys opinion?

Hi Dee Raye,

Completely a guess. He is a musician, use to being approached by women. He enjoyed your eye contact, but was expecting you to leave the bar and approach him. By giving you dates to his shows, he is trying to draw your attention. No mistake about that.

Next time you see his act, approach him. Tell him how much you liked the show, you liked his energy on stage, your favorite song, etc.

If he doesn't ask you out after this, you will know he just craves attention and doesn't want to "date" anyone.

good luck ~

Guys opinion?

it is a good invitation for more conversation IF he actually remembers who you are. some people have like over 500 "friends", so it is worth of taking a chance. he might be one of those who flirts at every bar, but at least you know about it.

Guys opinion?

send him the message. See if he buys his beer from you next time. See if he has a myspace and send the message there also.

Guys opinion?

how about this...

"next time you are in, you will have to let me buy you a beer."

Guys opinion?

as a guy, i can honestly say that hes clueless. you say he definitely stayed within eyesight all night, could be there was a cool draft in that one spot and it was hot everywhere else. however, if he is clueless, you can get him jumpstarted by sending him a comment on myspace.