Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Am I normal or is this weird?????

I am 16. i don't know if this is normal or not..but. anyways, there was this guy who i knew from junior high then like 1 year ago he started messaging me over myspace and asked me for my number, etc. then he asked me to go to this place with him or whatever and then later he asked me to the movies and stuff.i thought he was alrite as a friend but after he started asking me to go places with him i was totally repulsed. physically, he is not attractive to me at all- he has huge man breasts, (Bigger than mine), and he is just not attractive to me. and i don't like his personality either. then i just blocked him off my myspace,AIM, ignored his texts, and everything.



ok well then a month ago i met this guy at my friend's birthday party. i thought he was cute and stuff but later while we were in the car with my friend and her boyfriend he started touching my leg and stuff but i liked it.then he added my myspace and talked to me on AIM but then he asked me for my



Am I normal or is this weird?????

I think it's normal. Don't settle for anything right now. You're still very young, and you have lots of time to find a guy that you really like.



By the way, I be creeped out by those two guys too. They sound a little stalkerish to me.



Take care.



Am I normal or is this weird?????

Take your time! You will be comfortable with the right one:



Unfortunately what most people don't get is you have to get to really know someone to make a relationship great and WORTH WHILE. Both people need to spend the time to really get to know each other.



The small flirty interactions you are having issues with are a tiny tip of a large iceberg (to use a crappy cliche). Personal info is just that - "personal" until you get to know someone. Also if the guy is young major hormones (not true emotions) are in play.



You must want to do the work upfront - and take the time to really know someone. If not you might as well just go jump in the sack and let the immature emotionally tortuous roller coaster ride begin.



Here's my advice - concentrate on school. This is the time in your life you need to focus on what you want out of (your entire) life. All the B.S. nammby pammby bf/gf crap won閳ユ獩 mean squat when it comes time to graduate and go on with the remaining 70-80 years of you life. Concentrate on being the best person you can be and great, meaningful relationships will come to you!



Am I normal or is this weird?????

you did the right thing. it's better to be cautious than something bad happen to you.



Am I normal or is this weird?????

my friend does the same thing.. as soon as a guy even just says hi to her she comes to me and says she likes him



i think its normal..



Am I normal or is this weird?????

What they're asking for is your personal info and if you feel uncomfortable about giving them that information, then I don't blame you for not giving it to them. A better way to handle it is just to tell them that you don't feel comfortable giving out that information and that you'd be happy to talk to them through email or over the phone.



Ignoring them in every way possible is going to hurt them and rub them the wrong way. Tell them how you feel about it and if they take offense to it, then they are not the type of guys you should be going after.



Am I normal or is this weird?????

"these just the wrong guys"



you dont want to waste your time with jerks right!



your doing the right thing!



just keep it up until you meet someone that you really like!

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