this guy is a motorcycle racer, and always has groupies around him who are stripper esque/barbie doll types because alot of those girls are followers. one girl impiticular has him as her two on myspace, and has a album about one pic of him, one pic of the two of them and some of his bikes. he does not have her on myspace top page, but he does have me on it and i barely know him..also im a cute girl but i am not a barbie doll and i dont have a stripper body, my body is a little thick...i do think he flirts with me but other times he will act like im not there. most the time i have to say hi to him but ill look up and he will be looking at me. he doesnt seem to be a player kind of a guy because he only does this to me at my work and no one else, he is a customer. btw he has several good guy friends who are really overweight.
let me know what you think about the situation and what i could do about it and how to do it...
Do i have a chance with him?
i think you shouldn't worry about whether or not he likes you. he can, on some level, sense your anxiety and insecurity. even the most attractive woman in the world can walk into a room and not be noticed if she is insecure and unsure of her beauty. likewise, a hideous woman can draw a crowd of admirers around her if she truly knows she's got the goods.
if you approach this guy with confidence and without expectations, he will be most likely to REALLY notice you. if you suspect he already likes you, then your chances are probably really good. tap into the inner fox and don't worry about what he thinks. you may not get him in the end, but confidence and a free spirit will attract many of the best kind of guys.
the bottom line is this: it's all about how you present yourself, which is all about how you feel about yourself.
