Ok, there's this guy in my history class and i've known that guy for like two years now. I wanted to tell him about how much i feel about him but i couldn't think of anything to say. I caught him staring at me though and wavedand he waved back, but i think it's he's thinking of something else. idk. well i have his number but i don't think i should call him cause he'll think i'm desperate. He's very cute and he's pretty sweet too and that's the type of guy i want in my life. He doesn't have a myspace at all or any type of accounts that is similar to myspace. I'm trying to be nice to him, but everytime i do it, i kind of get a bit b*t%26amp;hy in front of him, but i want him to see the real side of me.The sweet and caring one but my shyness won't let me. What should i do and how can i make a conversation with him so it won't be any quiet pauses or any interruptions?
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How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? First of all be confident in yourself. Be able to accept the chance that he may just like to hang out with you. When you feel you can chance it talk to him about the history class after all that is what you have in common.
How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? Be yourself. Find out all his likes and dislikes. So that when you talk to him, he is interested in you and your lips.
He'll want to talk to you all the time. Also improve your diction. If he can understand you better, he will be into you and not think of you
as a dummy. But don't come off as a big nerd. Just be up on top.
Be at the top of your game. That's right game. Female's and Male's end up playing this mating game.
When I first saw my older cousin doing this. I thought YUK, why don't you just tell her you
like her.
He said it didn't work that way. I found out later what he was talking about.
If you look too easy. They run!
Talk to him, mostly when he just talks to you. Play hard to get, but not to hard.
If it doesn't work out. There's another guy that'll come along in the next 15 minutes, just like a bus. (believe me)
How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? This right here:
"I'm trying to be nice to him, but everytime i do it, i kind of get a bit b*t%26amp;hy in front of him"
Is telling you that you are getting uncomfortable socially in this situation. You don't know what to do or say. When you're in this condition, as you've figured out, there's nothing you can say that'll actually work.
so try something else, something innocuous. Like for instance, ask him a question about himself. Like, "what did you do this weekend?" Pay him a compliment based on what he says.
Don't be too surprised if he's far more awkward than you are. His current social intelligience may not rise to the occasion. He may just not be ready to express how he feels about you. And that's okay.
How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? No quiet pauses? That is when you say the most... say it with your eyes and your body language. Find a way to put a hand on his arm or shoulder when you say something, like walk up behind him when he is sitting alone, pause for a moment and lean near his ear, put your hand on his shoulder and quietly say something flirty like "don't color outside the lines" if he is writing or drawing. Don't let there be an awkward pause, keep moving when you are done if he doesn't strike up a conversation. Just use icebreakers until he takes advantage of them.
And above all, relax. Getting all uptight is probably what is hiding the nice and sweet.
How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? Build up your confidence. Think about who you are, what you can offer, the sweet and caring person that you are and build up your confidence. You already did wave at him first when you caught him staring at you. That involves confidence. Just extend that confidence and talk to him the next time you see him. Say "Hi", talk about things you have in common, like the history class, etc. Ask him for coffee after the class. If he is busy, the ball is in his court to extend the invitation. (But don't ask him if he's busy, just ask him for coffee if you're going to ask at all.) Overall all just be natural and yourself, after all this is what you want to show him.
How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? Hi,
I am not an expert at this or anything, but if I were the guy, I would want to know what you would think of me. For a change it would even be nice to know that a female would approach me and tell me that she has feelings for me. What happens later will happen inevitably.
Please do not worry that the guy may answer "no" or something which means that. It's better to try and know what the guy feels than keeping things to yourself and regret about this later. At least you'll have the satisfaction of approaching him and letting him know how you feel about him. Too bad if he doesn't feel the way you do.
BTW, you'll have to work on the shyness part. I know that you'd feel shy to talk to a person about all your feelings for him, so instead what you can do is, (have a bit of patience) you can try to be friends with the guy initially, hang out together for a while say a month or so. Then gradually you can work your way through.
Sorry for the really long post, I hope this was helpful. Let us know how it goes and reply.
Best of luck....
How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? Be sure he likes you! If he doesn't you'll end up with one broken heart and turn Scarlet red due to sheer embarrassment or, in some cases, rejection.
Ask his friends whether he likes different girls in your class(go down a list of girls to ask, e.g. Dana, Michelle, Megan, Phoebe etc.).
If you realize he may like you,slip hints(like a cook up a nice conversation on something simple, like homework on in a class), when you walk past him or when talking to him, brush against him "accidentally"!
Further on, you need to give him a look.(Make sure it's not scary by practicing with your friends) Hold the look for about 2 seconds,then look away. 3 seconds later repeat that step and then look at him 1 final time to see if he is looking back your way!
If you're sure he likes you, you can get a friend to tell him (preferably a friend who he has known for a while)
If you have his number, leave him a flirty voicemail!
Start sitting next to him whenever you get the chance try to make something you two can bond over. Dont get too clingy and always sit with him just remember he has his mates and you dont want to annoy him.
Always believe him, unless it sounds kind of shady.
Don't try too hard... no guy likes a girl over-trying or desperate. Even if you are, play it 'cool-n-casual' and act laid back.
Don't always assume that a guy likes you.
If you tell him you like him and he doesn't respond in a manner you were hoping for him to have responded in, make a joke of it because if you do have a huge thing for this guy, you can still be friends.
Don't say "just kidding" or anything of that nature if he does not respond.
Know his birthday and get him something small.
Act comfortable around him!!
If you`re finally going to tell him you like him, break it to him gently. Start off with something that you know/think interests him, then start dropping hints.
If he doesn't get it, then maybe hes not the right one!
If you don't see any signs that he does, then feel free to take that risk and just tell him, just know that it may affect the friendship he thought you two had, but at least you'll know for sure.
The best place to tell him is at a party. You can ask to talk to him privetly and tell him. But start off with something that's interseting to him.
Don't hit him or insult him. You may think this is being flirty, but it is not.
Guys have feelings too. If he does something embarassing, don't laugh.
If you think he likes you, you may want to try being close to him. Sitting next to him or walking with him may help.
Try not to flirt with other guys during this time. It will make him feel like you do not like him and he will back off.
DO NOT, tell him you like him by email or a note. If you do this you are just asking him to ask you everything this way.
Guys like it when you are flirty.
Try looking at him.
If he likes you he may stare back into your eyes, or look quickly at you at glance away.
Don't talk about anything lovey-dovey in front of his friends, because they will probably tease him.
Dont let him do all the flirting. if he smiles, smile back at him.
If he stares at you "a lot" and lets you catch him in the act, he likes you.
Dont be nervous. if he likes you any little comment will work, he will respond because its his turn to show you in return.
How can you tell a guy that you like him and have him like you back? Don't be shy. It's not like you're gunna marry the dude. He sounds like a keeper, so you should try getting to know him better. When you catch him starring at you, smile at him. Personally, I think writing a note to him telling him how you feel is the easiest way.(or text him!) Or, you could have one of your friends ask him out for you, and if he says no then just tell him it was joke. You're gunna have 2 flirt with him every chance you get, but dont be too pushy. And you should atleast call him once; just be like, "What was the homework for so and so" and then try to turn that into a REAL conversation. And if you want to get him interested; do your hair pretty, wear pretty make-up, or just to talke to him!!!! Being mean in front of him will scare him off. You have to be funny, cute, and not a total dork. (I 100% doubt ur a dork) %26amp;%26amp; if things dont work, then what does it matter?? You're not going to marry him, so just think of your future. I hope this helped in some way? Good luck and I hope you get the guy!!
~Roxann =]
